The life of a work from home mom is not exactly what I would call glamorous.
It’s fulfilling, and crazy, and busy, and sometimes boring. It’s also a lifestyle that is often misinterpreted and highly debated (just ask the internet).
I took a day in my life as a work from home mom and took a picture every hour to explore some of those emotions and intricacies.
It ended up being an introspective exercise that took a lot longer than I had anticipated to write about. While it sounds like a perfect solution to the “to work or not to work” debate…working from home definitely has its high and low points. Continue reading “Ashley Does: A Day In The Life Of A Work From Home Mom”
Last week, Caroline and I spent a few hours getting the kids’ playroom organized, cleaning up, taking out trash, and sorting through toys.
Luckily she’s three, so I could entertain her with something while I quickly stuffed unused toys into a large bag to take to Goodwill.
After reading Shonda Rhimes’ The Year of Yes, I was inspired to get rid of things in my house that don’t bring me immediate happiness or that clutter it up – when the house is cluttered, my brain is cluttered and I’m not a very effective wife, mom, or human being.
Kids don’t quite understand this concept – if you hold any toy up in front of one of my girls, immediately they have special memories and a million reasons they need to keep every single one. Therefore, Mama cleans and declutters the playroom when the older kids are at school! Continue reading “Ashley Does: Playroom Clean-Up”
It’s a hard concept for many fully grown, functioning adults to grasp.
I know it was a hard lesson for me to understand even after “growing up” and starting a family.
Because of that, Joe and I have decided that it’s one of our priorities that we teach our girls the importance of money management, working hard for what they have, and learning how to patiently wait for what they want rather than impulse buying all.the.things.
You can imagine how well this is going over with our 8, 6, and 3 year old daughters.
To their credit, they are eager. They want to get the money and put it in the envelopes they made at church. It’s the working for it part that they are getting hung up on.
Aren’t we all? Continue reading “Ashley Does: Helping My Kids Work Hard and Manage Their Money”
This article was originally published December 6, 2014. I have come a long way since this post, and SO much has changed. But one thing hasn’t: the deep, burning desire to distance myself from the Mompetition. It felt like the right time to share this with you again – I hope it brings you some freedom today!
Those are the two words I spoke at our church’s Women’s Conference two years ago. They had asked us to come up to the front and speak the words that we had identified with, whatever those may be, and then speak the words that God actually uses to identify us. Continue reading “Ashley Does: Freedom Friday (Freedom From The Mompetition – Updated)”
It’s been a while since I’ve posted about food.
Mostly because Joe and I have started a new lifestyle and I don’t cook the way I used to anymore. I don’t bake much and our meals look different to be sure.
It took some serious retraining since the New Way is so counter-intuitive to the Old Way.
It’s been almost four months and I am used to it now. I’m also two pants sizes smaller, heartburn free, migraine free, and feeling overall healthier. So it has definitely been worth it!
I bet you’re asking me, “Ashley, what are you doing?”
I will tell you, but you must prepare yourself first. Prepare your heart for something that you are not expecting.
Are you ready? Continue reading “Ashley Does: Spaghetti Squash and Shrimp in a Lemon-Butter Sauce…YUM!”
Being a woman is exhausting.
It is our nature to take care of everything and everyone around us.
Our families. Our spouses. Our children. Our work. Our homes.
Often times, it’s hard to remember to stop and take a minute to breathe.
There’s a saying that I have been repeating to myself a lot lately:
You can’t pour from an empty cup.
Continue reading “Ashley Does: 10 Ways To Fill Your Cup First”
I’ma let that title sink in for a moment.
Could you imagine coming to bed after doing your nighttime skin routine, only to have your husband kiss you goodnight and ask:
“Why do you smell like an old lady?”
Guys I was thirty. I wasn’t old.
Needless to say, I tossed my night creme and started shopping for something new. Continue reading “Ashley Does: That One Time My Husband Said I Smelled Like An Old Lady”