It’s a hard concept for many fully grown, functioning adults to grasp.
I know it was a hard lesson for me to understand even after “growing up” and starting a family.
Because of that, Joe and I have decided that it’s one of our priorities that we teach our girls the importance of money management, working hard for what they have, and learning how to patiently wait for what they want rather than impulse buying all.the.things.
You can imagine how well this is going over with our 8, 6, and 3 year old daughters.
To their credit, they are eager. They want to get the money and put it in the envelopes they made at church. It’s the working for it part that they are getting hung up on.
Aren’t we all? Continue reading “Ashley Does: Helping My Kids Work Hard and Manage Their Money”
This article was originally published December 6, 2014. I have come a long way since this post, and SO much has changed. But one thing hasn’t: the deep, burning desire to distance myself from the Mompetition. It felt like the right time to share this with you again – I hope it brings you some freedom today!
Those are the two words I spoke at our church’s Women’s Conference two years ago. They had asked us to come up to the front and speak the words that we had identified with, whatever those may be, and then speak the words that God actually uses to identify us. Continue reading “Ashley Does: Freedom Friday (Freedom From The Mompetition – Updated)”
Last year at Christmastime, we were poor.
I’m being super honest with you right now. POOR. Like, there was no money at all.
We decided to have a minimalist Christmas and explained to the girls what that meant:
Santa would come, of course. Stockings would be filled. But other than that, there would be no other presents.
When they asked why, we did what all good parents would do: we
lied to them stretched the truth a bit.
We told them we were saving all our Christmas money for a special trip to Disneyland.
That is partially true. We do plan on a special trip to Disneyland at some point in the future. So it wasn’t exactly lying to them.
That’s not exactly the point here though so moving right along… Continue reading “Ashley Does: The Four Gift Holiday Rule”
There are moments in parenting that make you want to pat yourself on the back for your brilliance…and there are moments that make you want to question everything you’ve ever done as a parent.
Today, my 8 and 6 year old daughters spontaneously gave me their Christmas lists on the way to school. It quickly turned into one of those “question everything” moments.
These lists included the usual: bikes, walkie talkies, toys inspired by their favorite movies and TV shows.
But then, my 8-year-old dropped a bomb on me: “Mommy, for Christmas I want an iPod, with a case. The kind that plays music and has games and apps and can text.”
Continue reading “Ashley Does: The Technology Struggle”
Everyone is asking, “What will we tell the children?”
Some are nervous, some are scared, some are angry.
Honestly, do you want to tell them anything while you’re in that state?
Will showing your children how to be scared, nervous, and angry help them right now?
When Olivia, my oldest daughter, woke up today, the first thing she asked was, “Who won the election?”
This is how I answered her. Continue reading “Ashley Does: The “Day After The Presidential Election” Talk”
We were at the park. There was a playground, a large field, basketball courts, and a skate park.
The girls should have been running around, playing, and laughing right?
My girls were sitting in the shade of a tree, feet from me, pretending to watch TV.
Pretending. To watch. TV.
Let that sink in for a minute. Continue reading “Ashley Does: The Lost Art Of Play”
Have you ever had the crazy idea to take your small children on a road trip?
Because really what could go wrong with tiny humans locked in a car for an extended period of time?
We have always been a family who travels via car so when the opportunity came up to attend Perfectly Posh’s Ultimate Day Away we decided to make it a family affair.
As such, all five of us took a road trip to Salt Lake City this past weekend.
Seven and a half tiny hours in the van with three kids. Each way.
We survived – and came out of it with some tips and tricks to make your next family road trip a success! Continue reading “Ashley Does: Family Road Trip”
It’s Working Parent’s Day.
I know this day is probably supposed to be for parents who work outside the home.
I was that parent for the first 2 years of my oldest daughter’s life. It’s a hard road to walk down. Knowing that someone else witnessed your child’s first steps, or first words, or an injury, or a victory…it’s hard. I have nothing but respect and compassion for parents who work outside the home. Y’all deserve all the props and paid vacation in the world.
This post is geared toward parents who work from home, but I think every working parent will find value here!
Continue reading “Ashley Does: Salute to Working Parents”
Chocolate Milk Shakes have their own Day.
Did you know that?!
How have I lived this long without knowing about National Chocolate Milk Shake Day?
I feel kind of cheated. Continue reading “Ashley Does: Chocolate Milk Shake For Breakfast!”
A chorus of “MOM! I can’t find my _____!!” “MOM! Can you help me get ______!!”
You fill in the blank.
We’ve all heard it before. Ad nauseam.
Recently, I had the brilliant revelation that there comes a time in life that everyone must fend for herself. Get your own snack, drink, cup, plate, art supplies, and blue sock dangit!
(OK, maybe not the socks. I firmly believe they meet up in some secret compartment of the clothes dryer and conspire to make parents crazy.)
But, come on people, 6 and 8 year old children can fetch their own granola bars and water. Amiright? Continue reading “Ashley Does: Work at Home Mom Hack (with free printable!)”