In the past few weeks, I have learned a lot about my children.
Summer has begun, and aside from Vacation Bible School, we haven’t really had anything planned.
No lessons. No camps. No scheduled anything besides play dates and chores. And we have scaled way back on how much tech time the girls get, too.
It’s been a boring, low-tech summer, and it’s been incredibly eye-opening to me as their mother.
Continue reading “Ashley Does: What I’ve Learned During Our Low-Tech Summer (& A Printable!)”
A ragged, over-loved, no longer fuzzy stuffed moose named Moosey sits atop my daughter’s pile of clothes to pack for her first overnight trip with school.
He has been her constant companion for over 2 years now. They go everywhere together, he’s under her arm as she falls asleep at night, and she loves him fiercely.
This trip, however, is an uncertain one for Moosey. Continue reading “Ashley Does: The Moosey Dilemma – The Child Versus The Tween in My Daughter”
It’s 2:30 in the afternoon and my house is the quietest it has been since 6:00 this morning.
That is when our four-year-old barged into our room, whimpering that she had lost a specific stuffed animal and that she would not be able to go back to sleep without it.
Since we are such great parents, we waved a hand in her general direction, mumbled that she was fine, and sent her back to bed. Continue reading “Ashley Does: Four-Year-Olds Never Stop Talking Ever No Matter What And You Can’t Make Them. So Here’s What I Do Instead.”
It’s a hard concept for many fully grown, functioning adults to grasp.
I know it was a hard lesson for me to understand even after “growing up” and starting a family.
Because of that, Joe and I have decided that it’s one of our priorities that we teach our girls the importance of money management, working hard for what they have, and learning how to patiently wait for what they want rather than impulse buying all.the.things.
You can imagine how well this is going over with our 8, 6, and 3 year old daughters.
To their credit, they are eager. They want to get the money and put it in the envelopes they made at church. It’s the working for it part that they are getting hung up on.
Aren’t we all? Continue reading “Ashley Does: Helping My Kids Work Hard and Manage Their Money”
We were at the park. There was a playground, a large field, basketball courts, and a skate park.
The girls should have been running around, playing, and laughing right?
My girls were sitting in the shade of a tree, feet from me, pretending to watch TV.
Pretending. To watch. TV.
Let that sink in for a minute. Continue reading “Ashley Does: The Lost Art Of Play”
My daughter asked a question today that I was not ready for.
I thought I had years before this question. Hoped I did.
I was completely taken aback, I had no idea what to say to her.
Today, my 8-year-old looked at her sister and asked:
“Does this make me look fat?”
And my heart broke. Continue reading “Ashley Does: The Question That Broke My Heart”
There were many reasons I was the worst mom ever yesterday.
My girls were mad, they were cranky.
They stomped around and pouted and shot me dirty looks.
I am pretty sure they were talking about me in a not very nice way with each other, too.
I was so stinkin’ proud of myself, y’all! Continue reading “Ashley Does: Worst Mom Pride”
You guys I totally started writing this post last summer and completely forgot about it! It still rings true today so I finished it, and am posting it here. Finally!
There are days that being a mom to three girls is more trying than others.
This day last summer was not one of those days.
One of my beloved friends called us to invite us to the pool. My first reaction was “HECK NO!” I have three children, the smallest of which is 2 1/2 and very independent. I could not imagine trying to keep track of all of them in what is basically a giant, crowded death trap.
Then I got to thinking. What kind of an example is that setting for them? Do I want them to spend their entire summer locked up in the house just so we don’t have to take any risks?
Of course not.
So we went. Continue reading “Ashley Does: The Donut Floatie”
I have 3 daughters.
My life is full of girly things: pink, purple, princesses, puppies, unicorns, accessories, makeup, and all things that smell nice.
I am officially becoming a girly girl who loves pretty things.
Who saw that one coming? (Let me tell you: not my mom!) Continue reading “Ashley Does: Pretty Things”
Life is full of lines. Lines at the grocery store. Lines at the post office. A line of tiny humans asking me for juice.
We’re always waiting for something.
And some of us are better at waiting than others. Continue reading “Ashley Does: Waiting in Lines”